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Tipping question

Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2023 8:04 pm
by Honeyman
Out of town and popped in a bar for a couple drinks. Tito's and tonic for me, house chard for my wife. Bartender says it's 18 something, I pay with a 100. He gives me coinage, a single, 2 5s, a ten, 3 twenties. I ask him to break the five and he looks at me like I ran out on the tab. I feel like I'm a good tipper, but is a 5 dollar bill the expected tip in that situation?

Re: Tipping question

Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2023 8:48 pm
by originalzzmfmjock
When my wife and I got out to dinner, we usually tip at least 5 dollars for anything under 25 dollars. Over 25 dollars, which now a days it usually is, we tip 20 percent. The only exception to that would be if the service left something to be desired.

Re: Tipping question

Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2023 9:26 pm
by Turkeytop
Honeyman wrote:
Fri Apr 07, 2023 8:04 pm
Out of town and popped in a bar for a couple drinks. Tito's and tonic for me, house chard for my wife. Bartender says it's 18 something, I pay with a 100. He gives me coinage, a single, 2 5s, a ten, 3 twenties. I ask him to break the five and he looks at me like I ran out on the tab. I feel like I'm a good tipper, but is a 5 dollar bill the expected tip in that situation?
$3 would have been adequate. When I'm going out somewhere, I try to make sure I have bills of various denominations with me to avoid awkward situations like that.

At home, we have $1 and $2 coins. One usually has a few of them in one's pocket.

Re: Tipping question

Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2023 11:22 pm
by TC Talks
Classic bartender move. Don't sweat it. 20% is standard

Re: Tipping question

Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2023 7:23 am
by craig11152
Use a credit card or debit card like most people do now days.
Otherwise don't walk around with 100's in your pocket for relatively small purchases.
Do ATM machines spit out 100's where you are? Or did you walk in the bank and ask for them?

Re: Tipping question

Posted: Sat Apr 08, 2023 11:09 am
by Honeyman
craig11152 wrote:
Sat Apr 08, 2023 7:23 am
Use a credit card or debit card like most people do now days.
Otherwise don't walk around with 100's in your pocket for relatively small purchases.
Do ATM machines spit out 100's where you are? Or did you walk in the bank and ask for them?
I'm in Cambria, CA. for a month. My favorite restaurant here, the Sea Chest actually only takes cash so yes, I did stock up on bills before we came. But I really didn't think it would be that big of a deal for a busy bar/grill to break a Benjie. Was headed to a farmers market after and wanted some smaller bills.

Re: Tipping question

Posted: Sun Apr 09, 2023 3:50 am
by paul8539
If it's anything over $10, I tip $2. Anything under $10, I tip $1.

Re: Tipping question

Posted: Sun Apr 09, 2023 6:33 am
by craig11152
paul8539 wrote:
Sun Apr 09, 2023 3:50 am
If it's anything over $10, I tip $2. Anything under $10, I tip $1.
What if it's $10? :rollin

Re: Tipping question

Posted: Sun Apr 09, 2023 1:10 pm
by MotorCityRadioFreak
$5 is plenty for an $18 tab especially for cash.

Re: Tipping question

Posted: Sun Apr 09, 2023 9:58 pm
by Plate Cap
MotorCityRadioFreak wrote:
Sun Apr 09, 2023 1:10 pm
$5 is plenty for an $18 tab especially for cash.
I was wondering if anyone would make that point...thanks, Freak.

Cash tipping improves the value of the tip substantially....the house may hold some back to allegedly share with the back staff, they may (and probably do) report W2 income on it (which means they pay taxes as income on the tip), they may even sting the employee for the interchange rate on the credit card.

Cash tip is worth another 20% at a minimum.....with a well paid waiter in a big shop, probably more like 30%.

And, they like it better. That counts if they see you often.

Re: Tipping question

Posted: Mon Apr 10, 2023 3:23 am
by MotorCityRadioFreak
Plate Cap wrote:
Sun Apr 09, 2023 9:58 pm
MotorCityRadioFreak wrote:
Sun Apr 09, 2023 1:10 pm
$5 is plenty for an $18 tab especially for cash.
I was wondering if anyone would make that point...thanks, Freak.

Cash tipping improves the value of the tip substantially....the house may hold some back to allegedly share with the back staff, they may (and probably do) report W2 income on it (which means they pay taxes as income on the tip), they may even sting the employee for the interchange rate on the credit card.

Cash tip is worth another 20% at a minimum.....with a well paid waiter in a big shop, probably more like 30%.

And, they like it better. That counts if they see you often.
Bingo. They pocket it and don’t give any bussers or other staff their cut(if it applies).

Re: Tipping question

Posted: Sat Apr 15, 2023 4:59 am
by paul8539
If the waitress tells you that somebody else picked up your bill, how much do you tip?

Re: Tipping question

Posted: Sat Apr 15, 2023 5:00 am
by paul8539
Craig: if the bill is exactly $10, it depends on how well the waitress treated me.

Re: Tipping question

Posted: Sat Apr 15, 2023 8:37 am
by craig11152
paul8539 wrote:
Sat Apr 15, 2023 4:59 am
If the waitress tells you that somebody else picked up your bill, how much do you tip?
In that case I would tip big....like 40% or 50% or even 60% .
I make the waiter happy and I still have a big discount from the 120% I would normally pay.