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Stupid Ex texted me after months of silent treatment

Posted: Mon Feb 11, 2019 12:06 am
by stopnswop2
Just in time for Valentines Day :rolleyes
The guy that turned me into a whiny bitch late last year...

like i literally just whined all day, filling up my Facebook wall with sad love letters and stupid depressing memes before finally withdrawing from everything...

Just texted my phone >:

I don't know.. should I text him back and see what he could possibly need from me, or ignore ?
I mean.. I do miss him.. but anyone that does that to someone they claim to love is complete garbage.

He spent month after month just trying to get me to notice him. Well I'm stubborn af and refused to acknowledge his flirting until I finally gave in, and I fell for him haaaard.
Then when he has me, he throws me in the trash...??

I mean.. I should have known better and expected such shit when he was cheating on his ex with me

I swear, when it comes to guys I'm just a trainwreck.
I mean I was engaged to a guy that abused me and tortured me for almost 10 years.... that's really stupid.

I'm a genius, but when it comes to guys my brain turns into mush. Lol

Re: Stupid Ex texted me after months of silent treatment

Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2019 8:20 am
by Mega Hertz
Let me ask you something.

When you take a shower, do you get out and put the same dirty underwear back on?

No.

So why would you do the same with an ex?

Some people are horrible. You know the saying about misery and company? Same rule applies. Bringing you down will bring them joy. So my vote is "to hell with him".

Re: Stupid Ex texted me after months of silent treatment

Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2019 8:41 am
by craig11152
new phone, who dis?

Re: Stupid Ex texted me after months of silent treatment

Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2019 5:52 pm
by Vic Doucette
When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.

Re: Stupid Ex texted me after months of silent treatment

Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2019 5:55 pm
by stopnswop2
Thanks guys. : )

But I'm gonna keep wondering non-stop about what he wanted etc.
Ugh

Re: Stupid Ex texted me after months of silent treatment

Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2019 6:44 pm
by ZenithCKLW
He wanted to make you wonder what he wanted. Don’t.

Re: Stupid Ex texted me after months of silent treatment

Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2019 8:04 pm
by stopnswop2
ZenithCKLW wrote:
Tue Feb 12, 2019 6:44 pm
He wanted to make you wonder what he wanted. Don’t.
Well that's just speculation.
I'm pretty sure he's genuinely worried about me though as I've dropped off the face of earth a couple months ago.

I have people texting me or calling me several times a week asking how I'm doing or seeing if I'm dead.


I won't text him though : )

Re: Stupid Ex texted me after months of silent treatment

Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2019 6:00 pm
by 1027BrianFM
I've held onto crappy friendships for too long, got take advantage of, lied to, and when one found out I wasn't going to take his BS anymore, he cut me off. Lifes too short to deal with idiots like that. move on

Re: Stupid Ex texted me after months of silent treatment

Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2019 6:35 pm
by stopnswop2
Yeah you make a good point.
He had his chance.

I actually already once tried to get back with him, but my friend had to stop me.

Re: Stupid Ex texted me after months of silent treatment

Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2019 9:10 am
by stopnswop2
I just texted him "hello?"

I couldn't keep wondering.
Lol I'm pathetic, I know.