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Stupid Ex texted me after months of silent treatment

Post by stopnswop2 » Mon Feb 11, 2019 12:06 am

Just in time for Valentines Day :rolleyes
The guy that turned me into a whiny bitch late last year...

like i literally just whined all day, filling up my Facebook wall with sad love letters and stupid depressing memes before finally withdrawing from everything...

Just texted my phone >:

I don't know.. should I text him back and see what he could possibly need from me, or ignore ?
I mean.. I do miss him.. but anyone that does that to someone they claim to love is complete garbage.

He spent month after month just trying to get me to notice him. Well I'm stubborn af and refused to acknowledge his flirting until I finally gave in, and I fell for him haaaard.
Then when he has me, he throws me in the trash...??

I mean.. I should have known better and expected such shit when he was cheating on his ex with me

I swear, when it comes to guys I'm just a trainwreck.
I mean I was engaged to a guy that abused me and tortured me for almost 10 years.... that's really stupid.

I'm a genius, but when it comes to guys my brain turns into mush. Lol


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Post by Mega Hertz » Tue Feb 12, 2019 8:20 am

Let me ask you something.

When you take a shower, do you get out and put the same dirty underwear back on?

No.

So why would you do the same with an ex?

Some people are horrible. You know the saying about misery and company? Same rule applies. Bringing you down will bring them joy. So my vote is "to hell with him".


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Post by craig11152 » Tue Feb 12, 2019 8:41 am

new phone, who dis?


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Post by Vic Doucette » Tue Feb 12, 2019 5:52 pm

When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.


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Post by stopnswop2 » Tue Feb 12, 2019 5:55 pm

Thanks guys. : )

But I'm gonna keep wondering non-stop about what he wanted etc.
Ugh


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Post by ZenithCKLW » Tue Feb 12, 2019 6:44 pm

He wanted to make you wonder what he wanted. Don’t.



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Post by stopnswop2 » Tue Feb 12, 2019 8:04 pm

ZenithCKLW wrote:
Tue Feb 12, 2019 6:44 pm
He wanted to make you wonder what he wanted. Don’t.
Well that's just speculation.
I'm pretty sure he's genuinely worried about me though as I've dropped off the face of earth a couple months ago.

I have people texting me or calling me several times a week asking how I'm doing or seeing if I'm dead.


I won't text him though : )


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Post by Deleted User 10525 » Wed Feb 13, 2019 6:00 pm

I've held onto crappy friendships for too long, got take advantage of, lied to, and when one found out I wasn't going to take his BS anymore, he cut me off. Lifes too short to deal with idiots like that. move on



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Post by stopnswop2 » Wed Feb 13, 2019 6:35 pm

Yeah you make a good point.
He had his chance.

I actually already once tried to get back with him, but my friend had to stop me.


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Post by stopnswop2 » Fri Feb 15, 2019 9:10 am

I just texted him "hello?"

I couldn't keep wondering.
Lol I'm pathetic, I know.


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Post by RayQix » Tue Feb 26, 2019 5:24 am

Always look forward.

Don’t look back, you’ve been there and know how that part of the story goes.

It’s hard to fight that urge to talk to someone or have contact with someone who once was that deeply involved in your life.

It’s like the saying “fool me once, Shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me”

You’d be the one at fault..... and he/she is just looking to mess with your head.

Don’t do it again.... too many good people out there to have your heart tossed around and thrown against the wall.

Block the number, be done with him/her.

Some rotten things will always remain that way no matter how much your head may “pretty it up” and make it appealing again.

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Post by RayQix » Tue Feb 26, 2019 5:25 am

And no, you are not pathetic.... you’re human.....

Time to stop allowing him to have that power.


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Re: Stupid Ex texted me after months of silent treatment

Post by Neckbeard » Wed Feb 27, 2019 2:54 am

When it comes to exes I always think of Pet Cemetery and that scene where Fred Gwynn is talking about why it is best to let the dead sleep. Good memories are just memories.



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